Most people expect to feel better after that first year of bereavement, as if they've reached some sort of significant milestone in their grief journey. Unfortunately, this is another of those myths about grief that simply does not hold true. If you assume that grief will ease as the second year begins, you may soon discover that in many ways it seems much harder now than it did before. You may find yourself feeling even worse ~ and that can seem very unsettling. Beyond the First Year: Struggling with New Waves of Grief « Grief Healing
Understanding and Managing Grief, September 1 - September 30, 2025
Understanding and Managing Grief, August 11 - August 24, 2024
Best selections from Grief Healing's X feed:
Since he began specializing in grief counseling after becoming a licensed Mental Health Counselor in 2012, Todd Schmenk said the most meaningful response he has ever gotten from a client is for them to cry. “They just cried and then looked at me afterward and said, thanks for showing up,” Schmenk said. When it comes to helping others through grief, especially after losing a loved one, Schmenk said one simply needs to stop trying to fix the other person’s pain. The Key to Grief Is to Feel It « The Valley Breeze
Understanding and Managing Grief & Pet Loss, November 20 - November 26, 2022
Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:
Anyone who has loved an animal companion knows losing a pet hurts. Every relationship we forge with an animal is unique, and they become tightly woven into our existence. To lose such a friend is not just to have sudden hole where they used to be. There are constant reminders of time spent together, threads in the tapestry of daily life left ragged and loose. Profound grief for a pet is normal « Medical Press
Caregiving and Hospice, March 4 - March 9, 2019
Most Adults Don’t Have the End-of-Life Care Documents They Need, http://j.mp/2H4I85c « 1-800-HOSPICE™
How to Find the Right Words for Someone in Hospice, http://j.mp/2H7LQuA « Next Avenue
Understanding and Managing Grief: December 9 - December 15, 2018
Five things you need to know about your life after loss, http://j.mp/2LgPn9i « Second Firsts
Widowed and Scary~ http://j.mp/2LhN5Xi « Soaring Spirits International
Grief Doesn't Take a Holiday, http://j.mp/2Le4YXa « Widower's Grief
Voices of Experience: Goodgrief App to Connect The Bereaved
Healing yourself is connected with healing others. ~ Yoko Ono
Understanding and Managing Grief, November 12 - November 18, 2017
"Conversational Narcissism" ~ an excellent read on grief response: The Mistake I Made with My Grieving Friend, http://j.mp/2zU65pg « Oprah.com
Grief Is Good, http://j.mp/2iZZP7m « OptionB.Org
STOP! Read This Before You Post Another RIP on Social Media, http://bit.ly/2inAip5 « Grief Watch
Understanding and Managing Grief, September 24 - September 30
Living in the Shadow of a Child’s Death, http://j.mp/2fzDw78 « Alive in Memory
Why it's OK to use social media to mourn, http://j.mp/2hzq04e « Mashable
Widowhood: The Club Nobody Wants to Join, http://j.mp/2hsgrrp « HuffPost
Understanding and Managing Grief, July 16 - July 22, 2017
Online Grief Course will be relaunched Fall 2017 Due to Popular Demand, http://j.mp/2vtpxXx « Self-Healing Expressions
Help! My Sister Keeps Posting Photos of Our Dead Father (and Tagging Me) on Social Media, http://j.mp/2vssqaG « Modern Loss
Breaking and Mending 11 Years Later... http://j.mp/2vsfAt8 « Christina Rasmussen
In Grief: Remembering Is An Active Process
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If we are loved and remembered, then we live on forever in the hearts of those who love us. ~ Ted Menten
A reader writes: Eleven months ago, my son had a massive seizure in his sleep and went on to Heaven as a result. His birthday was to be the next day, the saddest day of my entire life. He was 6 feet tall, blonde hair, blue eyes and the most beautiful smile anyone ever wanted to see. He had the kindest heart and gentle way about him. I really did not realize how many lives he had touched while he was with us. When God came to take him home he got a very special angel. He was 21 and the kind of young man anyone would have been proud to have had for a son. I must say it was a privilege to say I was his mother. The day he died a part of me died too. I miss him so much it is physically painful even to this day. I have not found a way to live this new life I have been given. I do try but without much success.
Understanding and Managing Grief, February 19 - February 25, 2017
Grief's Grenades, http://bit.ly/2lN6CnQ « Second Firsts
For Widows Only: Who We Are, http://bit.ly/2lhnRKS « Griefcase
Updated today: Grief Bibliography, http://bit.ly/9J8Wa4 « Grief Healing
Understanding and Managing Grief, January 1 - January 7, 2017
My Second Chapter: Life, Marriage, Family, http://bit.ly/2i1UjDK « Open to Hope
Please read this before you post another RIP on social media. http://u.pw/2i2cUe1 « Up Worthy
Talking to Children About Death, http://bit.ly/2i0vx20 « Psychology Today
Understanding and Managing Grief, December 11 - December 17, 2016
Powerful! A Life Worth Living, http://bit.ly/2hrIx1y « The Gift of Second
Voices of Experience: Helen's Christmas Gift, http://j.mp/uuOgZW « Grief Healing
Social Media Offers New Ways to Express Grief, http://bit.ly/2hfSH7I « SevenPonds Blog
Understanding and Managing Grief, June 5 - June 11, 2016
Stifled Grief: How the West Has It Wrong, http://j.mp/1OilF33 « One Fit Widow
How Social Media Expands the Space Between Mourning and Grief, http://j.mp/1OdY837 « The Atlantic
Explaining Daddy's Suicide: Pictures by Emily Vaden, http://j.mp/2193g9P « The Gift of Second
Understanding and Managing Grief, April 5 - April 11, 2015
How Can a Labyrinth Help in the Grieving Process? http://j.mp/1PwFP6A « SevenPonds Blog
Jane Hirshfield On Turning To Poetry In Grief, http://j.mp/1yiTMQc « KUOW.org
In Grief: Us vs. Them, http://j.mp/1ylbL8T « Alive in Memory
Understanding and Managing Grief, February 22 - February 28, 2015
Weekly Tip: Using Social Media as a Touching Memorial, http://j.mp/1wxeoDz « Seven Ponds Blog
The Eternal Challenge of the Suicide Widow, http://j.mp/1GAfDCn « Widow's Voice
Infertility: navigating your 'disenchanted' « http://j.mp/1zN0ZD7 « HeraldTimesOnline.com
Understanding and Managing Grief, May 25 - May 31, 2014
Another kind of loss: Rob Lowe on sending his son off to college, http://j.mp/1nLiRLt « Slate
Terrific! Grief: No no no - No More Normal, http://j.mp/1mweSzC « Stop Thief: Don't Steal My Grief
Innovative use of music therapy: Turning Heartbeats of Dying Patients into Music, http://j.mp/1mKpaxz « ABC News
Caregiving and Hospice, May 11 - May 17, 2014
7 life lessons [for men] from hospice workers, http://j.mp/QQYrUj « Men's Health
Building Outrage: Mad as Hell—and Then What? http://j.mp/1sBkPgN « MediCaring.org
Watch the short film to find out how ehospice improves access to quality palliative care worldwide, http://youtu.be/sD4IspE3NpI « YouTube
Caregiving and Hospice, April 27 - May 3, 2014
Give your family the gift of making your own decision, http://j.mp/1mlO89C « Caring with Confidence
Terrific! Everything I Need to Know about Twitter I Learned from Hospice, http://j.mp/1iLdIMF « Social in DC
Are you listening, docs? The Health-Care System Is So Broken, It’s Time for Doctors to Strike, http://j.mp/R7nvqm « The Daily Beast
Understanding and Managing Grief, June 2 - June 8, 2013
A widow's courageous post: May I be blunt? http://j.mp/17xoOoy « Memoirs from Widow Island
Grief Photography How To: Photographing Symbols, http://j.mp/13qnxvu « What's Your Grief?
Must read! Turning the Key http://j.mp/11oVeuf « Widow's Voice
Important Book Review: “When Someone Dies” by Scott Taylor Smith, http://j.mp/14FgWLj « SevenPonds Blog
Lovely! Loss of a Loved One: Finding Meaning Through Metaphor, http://bit.ly/WaARQe « Roots of Action




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