Meghan Riordan Jarvis, a trauma-informed grief expert who specializes in how grief affects the body, told me that because the death of a loved one is a completely novel experience, it is "very energetically expensive." She confirmed that grief can impair our balance as well as memory and our ability to do multistep functions. Can grief make us accident-prone? « KLCC
Understanding and Managing Grief, March 24 - March 30, 2024
Understanding and Managing Grief & Pet Loss, January 8 - January 14, 2023
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This year, I encountered my worst nightmare. Despite all of the trauma that I’ve experienced, no level of abuse compared to facing the one thing I feared most in the world: losing my best friend, my emotional support animal (ESA), Willow. How My Emotional Support Animal Continues to Heal Me Even After Her Passing « Your Tango
Understanding and Managing Grief, November 6 - November 12, 2022
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More than a million Americans have lost their lives to COVID-19, leading to what some have called a second epidemic of grief. Lockdowns and other factors meant that many people couldn’t process their losses in normal ways with funerals and other gatherings. Prolonged and unaddressed grief can lead to significant mental health problems. Rep. Joe Morelle (D-New York) introduced the Grief Resilience Investment and Education Fund (GRIEF) Act to help combat some of these issues, especially in marginalized communities. Better Support for Grieving Americans « Home Care
Understanding andManaging Grief, August 22 - August 28, 2021
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I’m not a horse whisperer, but I have a new understanding of horses and their internal power. It began with Dr. Jo Anne Grace’s gentle voice inviting me to participate in a two-day equine-assisted grief therapy program. Equine-Assisted Grief Therapy: Healing with Horses at Humble Ranch « Steamboat Magazine
Understanding and Managing Grief, June 20 - June 26, 2021
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A new study, published in PLOS One, explores bereaved individuals’ experiences and satisfaction with social support. The researchers’ findings indicate that animal, as opposed to human, supports can be the most satisfactory form of support. Pets More Effective for Grief Support than Humans, Study Finds « Mad in America
Understanding and Managing Grief & Pet Loss, June 13 - June 19, 2021
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When compared with every other human group with whom grievers typically interact, animals provided significantly more support than family, friends, colleagues, therapists, social workers, medical staff, spiritual providers and more. Too often with humans, fear gets in the way of love. Animals simply just show up. Social work professor Joanne Cacciatore explores animals’ abilities to help those dealing with grief « ASU News
Hospice, Grief, & Pet Loss, January 19 - January 25, 2020
This post is for you, Mamaw. Thank you for loving me so well, and for showing me that kindness can change the world. Echoes, https://j.mp/2RIeAgu « Bryan C. Taylor
Depression killed my innately joyful sister. When people ask how she died, this is how I respond. 'Was She Sick?' https://j.mp/30KWHSr « Modern Loss
Face this profound challenge by staying connected and finding friends who will listen. How Men Grieve, https://j.mp/36jY5wt « Next Avenue
Caregiving & Grief, September 22 - September 28, 2019
Spousal caregivers are largely fending for themselves, according to a new study published in the June issue of Health Affairs. Spousal Caregivers Are a Lonely Bunch, https://j.mp/2mJL0M1 « Seven Ponds Blog
Written after the death of her son, Denise Riley’s Time Lived, Without Its Flow finds radical and consoling ways to understand bereavement. Max Porter on the book everyone should read about grief: 'I felt changed', https://j.mp/2mkG7ZL « The Guardian
Grief after non-death losses—like the voluntary “laying down” of one’s career—are often disenfranchised in our society. Today, I Chose Loss, https://j.mp/2lFmXgR « Grief Perspectives
Caregiving and Hospice, June 2 - June 8, 2019
Paging Dr. Spot, http://j.mp/2WOYOVG « AAMC News
Does Medicine Have a Wall of Silence? http://j.mp/2WMChbX « Medpage Today
The Truth about Hospice, http://j.mp/2QOU7po « Benevilla
Pet Loss: Death of A Service Dog
A service dog can mean a whole new way of life for the handicapped. The activities that able-bodied people take for granted now can be routine for the disabled also, with the help of a four-footed therapist. ~ Janet Ruckert, EdD
A reader writes: I have been looking at your websites and the materials that you offer for pet loss. I'm wondering if any of it would be of help to me. I lost my dear sweet black Lab Service Dog to malignant melanoma just a few weeks ago. She was not a pet ~ she was my assistant and helper and light of my life for nine and a half years. She was my constant companion and went with me everywhere. She helped me every day both physically and emotionally. I use a wheelchair and a specially converted rampvan for mobility. If I fell my dog would go find help for me. Her loss has left an unbelievably huge hole in my heart. I let her go because I could not and would not let her continue to hurt like I know that she was. I need her so much and just can't seem to let myself get on with the things I need to do in my life without her.
Caregiving and Hospice, January 13 - January 19, 2019
What is the Pet Partners Therapy Animal Program? http://j.mp/2CuvRCh « Seven Ponds Blog
Conversation With Barbara Karnes - The Little Blue Book Lady! by Palliative Care Chat, http://j.mp/2CsRbIp « University of MD Baltimore
The elderly couple who bought vitamins at the grocery store, http://j.mp/2Cmu0iS « Kevin, MD
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Voices of Experience: Four-Footed Healers Support The Team
Isolation is a natural reaction to depression and grief. If you’re in the depths of depression, it can be hard to pick up the phone and call a friend. If you’ve lost of a loved one, lost your good health, or lost a relationship, you may pull inward and grieve alone.
But just because isolation is natural doesn’t mean it’s good for you. Isolation can create a spiral of despair. Depression and grief cause people to cut themselves off from friends and family, which in turn causes more depression and grief, and so on.
Talk therapy and medications are the standard treatments for these states of mind. Recent research, however, points to another way to help people escape that spiral. It’s been called the pet effect. Simply put, being around animals helps people feel less isolated, depressed, and grief-stricken.
Caregiving and Hospice, August 5 - August 11, 2018
Meditation App Benefits Hospice and Palliative Care Clinicians, http://j.mp/2KHZXEw « Oncology Nursing News
Dog with cancer helps hospice director spread the word to keep living after terminal diagnosis, http://j.mp/2MBovk9 « Idaho State Journal
Caregiving and Hospice, April 8 - April 14, 2018
Arthur Kleinman on the societal and medical ramifications of caregiving, http://j.mp/2HzU4cE « Harvard Magazine
You Only Die Once, So Do It Right (w/ Tim Boon), http://j.mp/2HCCBQR « ZDoggMD
Hospices are Among America’s Most Important Care Providers, http://j.mp/2Hq46gd « NHPCO Updater
Understanding and Managing Grief, December 24 - December 30, 2017
Holiday Break: A Lesson from the Animals, http://j.mp/2E0sCST « Grief Healing
The Gift of Presence, The Perils of Advice, http://j.mp/2pU1XEw « On Being
What My Dog Taught Me About End of Life, http://j.mp/2pCNk8v « Care Dimensions - Voices of Care
Caregiving and Hospice, September 24 - September 30, 2017
Don't let new Nurse Ratched show be an American Horror Story for real nurses! http://j.mp/2fyJqpe « Change.org
Physicians have the power to save our health care system, http://j.mp/2fyrX0e « Kevin MD
Five Years Sober, http://j.mp/2fwF7L4 « Musings of a Distractible Mind
Understanding and Managing Grief, June 18 - June 24, 2017
Lovely! Nancy Sharp on helping children remember their deceased father: What does it mean to love when you can't remember? http://j.mp/2tYAf6y « Option B
Megan Devine on grief work and how we can carry what can't be fixed, http://j.mp/2tYk898 « Raven Radio
Therapy dogs in funeral homes help mourners process, http://j.mp/2sZci1V «TODAY
Caregiving and Hospice, May 14 - May 20, 2017
Cancer Patients Might Be More Optimistic About Prognosis Than Their Doctors, http://bit.ly/2qGtp5h « Seven Ponds
Rebecca Sudore on Advance Care Planning: The Prepare Trial, http://bit.ly/2rzfDRg « GeriPal
Caregiving and Hospice, April 3 - April 9, 2016
How a Service Dog Saved My Life, http://j.mp/1q4PwjY « HuffPost Accessibility
In Facing Death: We Are All So Different, http://j.mp/1VteQMq « Grief Watch
21 Communication Tips from Persons Living with Alzheimer's and dementia, http://j.mp/1S0CxGn « Alzheimer's Reading Room
Caregiving and Hospice, January 10 - January 16, 2016
Physician-assisted suicide is not a failure of palliative care, http://j.mp/1OowLQn « Canadian Family Physician
Navigating Hospice Care with a Reluctant Caregiver, http://j.mp/1P5kUdu « Pallimed
My Right to Die: Assisted Suicide, My Family, and Me, http://j.mp/1OTEwzf « Mother Jones



























