Sunday, June 30, 2019

Understanding and Managing Grief, June 23 - June 29, 2019

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

It Hurts Each Time you say "Suicide is Preventable" by Kelley Ford, « The Gift of Second

Grief Poems: The After Loss Credo, « AfterTalk

What's the Right Thing to Say When Someone Is Grieving? « Psychology Today

Monday, June 24, 2019

Using Movies in A Grief Support Group Setting

Image by Brett Hondow from Pixabay
Everything I learned 
I learned from the movies.
~ Audrey Hepburn

A  colleague writes: I am a hospice bereavement counselor in the Great Plains region of the US. On the web, I ran across your blog post, Using Movies to Move through Grief. It is a great article and very helpful. I am considering showing some of the movies you suggested at our grief support group. In your work as a grief counselor, have you used movies in a support group setting? If so, how did it go? Are there any movies in particular that would work well for a group format? I would appreciate any insights you may have. 

Sunday, June 23, 2019

Understanding and Managing Grief, June 16 - June 22, 2019

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

What is the Treatment for Complicated Grief? « Seven Ponds Blog

Grief's New Normal, « Widower's Grief

How a Psychic Medium Broke Through My June Gloom,  « Modern Loss

Monday, June 17, 2019

Pet Loss: A Letter of Thanks

Image by June Laves from Pixabay 
[There are] two kinds of gratitude: The sudden kind we feel for what we take; the larger kind we feel for what we give.  ~ Edwin Arlington Robinson

A reader writes: Dear Marty, I want to express my gratitude to you personally for the comfort and strength you have given me and others like myself who have lost special companion animals. My cat of eleven and a half years died of kidney disease. We had him euthanized when the disease had progressed to the point where, although he still had his dignity and awareness, he was so painfully thin and weak that we knew he was very tired; he had "fought the good fight," and it was time to let him go. 

Sunday, June 16, 2019

Understanding and Managing Grief, June 9 - June 15, 2019

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

What is Complicated Grief? « Seven Ponds Blog

Fathers Day approaches. Reminders are everywhere, a source of additional pain for so many people, in so many different ways. This week we'll be sharing links related to Father's Day, starting with a selection of grief resources collected by Grief Healing, « Refuge in Grief

The Fog of Grief and How to Deal With It, « NextAvenue

Monday, June 10, 2019

Voices of Experience: Caregiver Recovery versus Bereavement

Nancy with her husband Larry 
It is not the load that breaks you down. It’s the way you carry it.  ~ Lena Horne, singer

By Nancy Hardaway

In the introduction to her website The Artful Caregiver, blogger Nancy Hardaway acknowledges that ~ after years of caring for her widowed mother, then her widowed sister and finally her husband ~ it was only in retrospect that she identified herself as a caregiver. Through her blog, she decided to share her caregiving journey "in the hopes that someone can be helped by what they read - that some benefit can come from all that we experience." Two months ago, Nancy's beloved husband Larry succumbed to the rare neurodegenerative disease that finally claimed his life. Now in the aftermath of devastating loss, Nancy continues sharing her hard-won "wisdom, woes, triumphs and tips," offering her insights as she transitions from life as a caregiver into that of a bereaved spouse.

Sunday, June 9, 2019

Caregiving and Hospice, June 2 - June 8, 2019

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

Paging Dr. Spot, « AAMC News

Does Medicine Have a Wall of Silence? « Medpage Today

The Truth about Hospice, « Benevilla

Understanding and Managing Grief, June 2 - June 8, 2019

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

How Can You Recover Emotionally After Causing Accidental Death or Injury? « Seven Ponds Blog

18 Caregiving Skills I Can Use on Me! « The Artful Caregiver

Creativity in Grief, « Grief Dialogues Blog

Coping with Pet Loss, June 2 - June 8, 2019

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

Pet Grief Is Traumatic: Harder Than Losing a Human Friend, Study Finds « Wide Open Pets

Researchers Reveal That Losing A Dog Can Be As Hard As Losing A Loved One, « Power of Positivity

The gifts our dying dog gave to my sons, « The Washington Post

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Monday, June 3, 2019

In Grief: Setting Clear Boundaries

[Reviewed and updated August 9, 2023]

Boundaries in child-parent relationships basically establish that you're an adult with your own rights, choices, preferences and capacities.  ~ JR Thorpe

A reader writes: We lost our dad 5 months ago and my mother-in-law 3 months ago. My mom is constantly complaining that my 2 siblings and I are not doing more for her. I'm feeling very depressed with all the guilt she is putting on me.

Sunday, June 2, 2019

Understanding and Managing Grief, May 26 - June 1, 2019

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

How Do you Move Forward After Causing Accidental Death Or Injury (CADI)? « Seven Ponds Blog

Grief Looks a Lot Like 'Crazy' « Modern Loss

Review: Dead to Me Is a Quietly Radical Depiction of Grief’s Emotional Haze, « Slant Magazine