Reaching out to others is often very difficult when we’re struggling with grief, but experience teaches us that the more support and understanding we have around us, the better we will cope.
You may wish that friends, family and co-workers would just “be there” for you without your having to ask, but that’s not likely to happen. It’s not that these people are uncaring; there simply is no way for them to fully understand the significance of your loss and the depth of your pain. Unfortunately your friends, family members and co-workers may not fully understand or appreciate the attachment you have with the one who has died and the pain you may still be feeling weeks and months after the death. What is more, your need to talk about your loss may outlast the willingness of others to listen.
If you find yourself in this position, please know that you have a number of helpful alternatives available to you. Read on here >>>
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Great article Marty. I know very few people who can deal with the devastating loss of a loved one all alone. Something that is becoming much more
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Thanks so much for your comment, Maureen ~ and I agree with you: The Internet is a wonderful source of support for the bereaved ~ provided that the sites selected are safe and reliable, and the information offered is accurate ♥
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