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Learning to Grieve What Never Was: Understanding the Hidden Grief of Childhood Abandonment
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The scars of abandonment linger, revealed in the fear of closeness, the craving for validation, and the haunting echo of 'I’m not enough...
When Support Feels Absent: Finding Comfort After Loss
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It sounds obvious, but it wasn’t until I was sitting with a friend (and feeling gloriously understood) that it finally clicked: no man can e...
Coping with the Holidays: Suggested Resources 2025
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[Updated January 18, 2026 ] Self-care is how you take your power back. ~ Lalah Delia When someone dearly loved has died, we grieve not only...
Veterans Day 2025 ~ Honoring All Who Served
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Some people live an entire lifetime and wonder if they have ever made a difference in the world. A Veteran doesn’t have that problem. ~ Ro...
Understanding and Managing Grief, October 1 - October 31, 2025
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Best selections from Grief Healing's X feed this month: Grief is a universal experience that touches everyone—from kids to adults. And f...
Faith and Finding Meaning in the Aftermath of Child Loss
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His death brings new experience to my life - that of a wound that will not heal. ~ Ernst Jünger A reader writes: I think for me, right no...
In Grief: On Writing Sympathy Thank-You Notes
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Appreciation can make a day, even change a life. Your willingness to put it into words is all that is necessary. ~ Margaret Cousins Upon ...
In Grief: Should Young Children Attend a Funeral?
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When deciding whether your child should attend a funeral or memorial service , age is not the most important consideration. Your child is p...
Anticipatory Grief: Staying Present When Loss Is Inevitable
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In order to get from what was to what will be, you have to go through what is. ~ Unknown A reader writes: My husband has advanced-stage l...
Pet Loss: How to Stop This Run-Away Grief Train
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I have lived with several Zen masters -- all of them cats. ~ Eckhart Tolle A reader writes: My beautiful lilac-point Siamese passed away...
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