A reader writes: In a few more days it will be ten years since I lost my wife and daughter in an auto accident. I have been in a bad headspace for the past few days and left a not-so-nice message for you in one of the forums on the Grief Healing Discussion Groups site, and there is no "take it back" button. So this is my apology. I should not have lashed out at you; it's just that you were there, if you know what I mean. Once again, I am sorry.